User-Friendly 'FRIENDS'

Is it right to use people to ascend to your desired destination?

Well, these people are referred to as USER-FRIENDLY.

It comes out as very selfish when verbalized. But most people don't say it out loud. However, their actions and counter-actions speak LOUDER than what they say.

Some people call them destiny helpers. I stand to be corrected, but why should you use someone else to elevate you to your desired space, then, when you get there you dump them like a used diaper, used sanitary pad or better still a hot potato that seems to be very uncomfortable around you.

How would you feel if people continuously used you in such a manner? 

Yes, they say that God uses people to be a blessing to you and probably your family. But if the coin is flipped, would you willingly help someone you know very well will dump you as soon as possible? Your guess is as good as mine, you wouldn't want to even be associated with such kind of people.

It's not an easy question to answer because most of us do exactly that. Position ourselves close to the people we believe may catapult us to the next big thing. 

As soon as we arrive or get there, we are quick to dump and form other alliances. Forging ahead towards the next big space. 

There are certain kinds of people who will befriend you knowing very well that their main objective is to have their agenda met. Once their agenda AGENDS they leave you there hanging or drying. This doesn't bother them whatsoever. 

Watch out. Don't be a USER-FRIENDLY kind of person. If you have to help people, do it genuinely. Without any expectations. Maybe just maybe God will blow the wind of prosperity your way. You wouldn't have to knowingly depend on the so-called destiny helpers!

But then again, where was it documented that you have to have those destiny helpers? Don't you trust in God enough?